happy anniversary ry!
*wedding photos by cappy hotchkiss
Tuesday, November 18, 2008
Wednesday, November 5, 2008
a beautiful day
Although we are both very interested in and, in fact, pretty opinionated when it comes to politics (though not always of the same opinion), we have generally chosen to keep our thoughts and beliefs more private. However, I have been so moved and personally touched by this election and all that it represents, that I felt the desire to express some of that here.
And it's not about whether or not Barack Obama shares my views on taxes or stem cell research or Iraq... It's about the fact that our country is embracing the idea that leadership opportunities are not limited to white men of a certain age and religious faith. It is the fact that my son will become an American citizen during an era of diversity, change, global awareness, and inclusion. It is the fact that people are taking responsibility for themselves and for the direction of the country. It is the fact that Americans are beginning to look first at what we all have in common, and not at our differences.
I cannot think of a better gift to my son than to be able to say to him with conviction that the color of his skin will not limit his opportunities in life.
We are not naive. We know that racism and sexism and ageism and lots of other "isms" still exist, and we know that we will encounter challenges as we try to raise our son (some because of the fact that we are a mixed race, mixed religion family, some not). But we are ever more optimistic that these challenges will be the exception and not the rule.
And it's not about whether or not Barack Obama shares my views on taxes or stem cell research or Iraq... It's about the fact that our country is embracing the idea that leadership opportunities are not limited to white men of a certain age and religious faith. It is the fact that my son will become an American citizen during an era of diversity, change, global awareness, and inclusion. It is the fact that people are taking responsibility for themselves and for the direction of the country. It is the fact that Americans are beginning to look first at what we all have in common, and not at our differences.
I cannot think of a better gift to my son than to be able to say to him with conviction that the color of his skin will not limit his opportunities in life.
We are not naive. We know that racism and sexism and ageism and lots of other "isms" still exist, and we know that we will encounter challenges as we try to raise our son (some because of the fact that we are a mixed race, mixed religion family, some not). But we are ever more optimistic that these challenges will be the exception and not the rule.
Tuesday, October 28, 2008
time flies!
It's hard for us to believe, but we've already been home with Simon for just over one month. It's been lots of fun and Simon has enjoyed tons of new experiences, meeting family and friends and becoming a city kid.
My words can never do justice to all that we are experiencing, so instead, I'll let these pictures speak a thousand (give or take) words.
ps - yes I know I still need to respond to being tagged and to post my 7 random things... it's coming....
My words can never do justice to all that we are experiencing, so instead, I'll let these pictures speak a thousand (give or take) words.
ps - yes I know I still need to respond to being tagged and to post my 7 random things... it's coming....
Monday, October 20, 2008
a year in the life
Today marks the one year anniversary of this blog (it all started here).
Like so many things in life, there is a part of me that feels as if this past year has gone by so quickly, and yet in many other ways, it feels as if we have lived a lifetime in these last 365 days. We had just started completing our paperwork when we created guzo: ethiopia, and now we are home with Simon Alemayheu, fully entrenched in this new chapter of our lives.
On the "year flying by quickly" side of me, I know I still owe many details on our time in Ethiopia, pictures from the trip, emails/calls to family and friends, and posts about life as a family of 4 (3 humans, one dog who thinks he is human).... I genuinely hope to accomplish all of these things, but I never seem to have the time these days. I am sorry for this and hope you will all forgive me, especially if you are among the ever growing group of people who I owe a call or email response to. Oh, and I've been "tagged" by a few people interested in learning a few surprising facts about me. I promise I will take you up on the tag and get a post up here soon with some random facts. Really - I will!! Life is good these days, but I am still working on finding balance in my new role as a mom - or at least something close to balance, as I recognize that I may never quite get it completely ;)
And as for living a lifetime in a year, well, let's see... in the last twelve months we've traveled: together to St. Lucia, India, Bhutan, Dubai, and Ethiopia; separately to Germany, South Africa, and Jordan... welcomed a new nephew... ventured into the adoption blogging community and met some wonderful new friends... started another guzo... I cooked dinner for Ryan for the first (and only) time (yes, sad, but true)... found a new apartment (did I mention we are in the process of buying a new apartment?)... and most significantly, of course, completed our adoption and welcomed the most amazing little boy into our lives!
Speaking of Simon... he has also accomplished quite a bit recently. So I will leave you with some of Simon's thoughts and observations about life in the Big Apple (in his words):
Like so many things in life, there is a part of me that feels as if this past year has gone by so quickly, and yet in many other ways, it feels as if we have lived a lifetime in these last 365 days. We had just started completing our paperwork when we created guzo: ethiopia, and now we are home with Simon Alemayheu, fully entrenched in this new chapter of our lives.
On the "year flying by quickly" side of me, I know I still owe many details on our time in Ethiopia, pictures from the trip, emails/calls to family and friends, and posts about life as a family of 4 (3 humans, one dog who thinks he is human).... I genuinely hope to accomplish all of these things, but I never seem to have the time these days. I am sorry for this and hope you will all forgive me, especially if you are among the ever growing group of people who I owe a call or email response to. Oh, and I've been "tagged" by a few people interested in learning a few surprising facts about me. I promise I will take you up on the tag and get a post up here soon with some random facts. Really - I will!! Life is good these days, but I am still working on finding balance in my new role as a mom - or at least something close to balance, as I recognize that I may never quite get it completely ;)
And as for living a lifetime in a year, well, let's see... in the last twelve months we've traveled: together to St. Lucia, India, Bhutan, Dubai, and Ethiopia; separately to Germany, South Africa, and Jordan... welcomed a new nephew... ventured into the adoption blogging community and met some wonderful new friends... started another guzo... I cooked dinner for Ryan for the first (and only) time (yes, sad, but true)... found a new apartment (did I mention we are in the process of buying a new apartment?)... and most significantly, of course, completed our adoption and welcomed the most amazing little boy into our lives!
Speaking of Simon... he has also accomplished quite a bit recently. So I will leave you with some of Simon's thoughts and observations about life in the Big Apple (in his words):
- I am a ladies man. All the ladies ooh and aah when they see me. I happily respond with a big grin and a little shrug of the shoulders.
- Food is good. Really, really good. I'm cool with all the pureed stuff, but what I really want is whatever is on Mom's plate. And I cannot wait until Mom will let me have some coffee. I jump up and down and wave my arms and grunt when she's drinking her coffee, but she still won't let me have any. Hmm.
- Standing is fun. I can't really do it without help, but I would stand all day long if Mom or Dad would help me.
- Kelly Ripa is pretty. She is waaaay more fun to watch on TV than Sesame Street or cartoons.
- I can put both hands with all my fingers in my mouth at the same time.
- When Mom and Dad point that video camera thing in my direction, it means I am doing something that will embarass me in about 12 years... so I should stop.
Wednesday, October 15, 2008
Living on the ej: Special Campaign Edition
ej here.. happy to bring you a special edition of Living on the EJ: Campaign for No Change at Home, brought to you by the Council for a Doggie Democracy.
Last I wrote, I was having a bit of meltdown because I wasn't getting my typical canine therapy outlet. But I am here today to tell you that while my protest lives on, those days of instability are over.
I am here before you today to tell you that while mistakes were clearly made, lessons have been learned and those responsible have been held accountable. So now is the time to look past this insignificant step down the wrong path and look towards the future.
It's been said that those that don't dwell on the past don't remember when they repeat it. And that's what my campaign for no change is all about. Living on the ej means living for the moment. When we pass that blob of purple goo on the street that smells promising, we snatch it. If it's no good, well, we just spit it out and move on. When that person loitering on the corner doesn't coo at us as we pass, we give a quick Arf to let him know who's boss.
Just this morning, I could have passed by a wretched pile of garbage outside my building, but I didn't. I squirmed and stretched the leash to give it a full inspection and was rewarded with a nibble of scrumptious old, dried up beef jerky. That's living on the ej.
But this campaign isn't really about me. It's about THAT ONE.
By now, it's quite obvious that the he is here, and fittingly, the blog media has run rampant with the news of his every move. The pictures, the comments, the videos... I haven't seen any video cameras at any of my campaign stops lately. But I'm not complaining. This is just typical media bias.
He can sit up? Yippee. Can he shake hands? My opponent simply does not have the limb coordination experience that I have.
He smiles all the time at people. Congratulations. Is he going to just smile when Alexis takes one of his squeaky blocks next time she comes over? Sometimes you have to stand strong and stand up for what is right. These are serious times. And that means NOT smiling at people sometimes.
But really, my friends, all this focus on the media is just a distraction from the real crisis at hand.
So I am hereby suspending my campaign to focus on the issue that really matters to dogs everywhere across this great nation. They are being lost everywhere that a cute kid joins a family. The numbers are dwindling so fast that there is a danger that even the very knowledge of their existence could fade away and disappear if we don't act soon. It may already be too late for some households. And to this, I say to you, my fellow four-legged friends, Not on my watch.
If you look at my long record of legislative proposals, you'll see I'm no champion of big government. And I'm not interested in needless over-regulation. But something must be done or this crisis could spiral us downward into a deep, dark, desperate depression.
What I'm talking about is simple to understand:
Belly rubs, baby, belly rubs.
Thank you and may God Bless Dogs.
Arf!
ej
Last I wrote, I was having a bit of meltdown because I wasn't getting my typical canine therapy outlet. But I am here today to tell you that while my protest lives on, those days of instability are over.
I am here before you today to tell you that while mistakes were clearly made, lessons have been learned and those responsible have been held accountable. So now is the time to look past this insignificant step down the wrong path and look towards the future.
It's been said that those that don't dwell on the past don't remember when they repeat it. And that's what my campaign for no change is all about. Living on the ej means living for the moment. When we pass that blob of purple goo on the street that smells promising, we snatch it. If it's no good, well, we just spit it out and move on. When that person loitering on the corner doesn't coo at us as we pass, we give a quick Arf to let him know who's boss.
Just this morning, I could have passed by a wretched pile of garbage outside my building, but I didn't. I squirmed and stretched the leash to give it a full inspection and was rewarded with a nibble of scrumptious old, dried up beef jerky. That's living on the ej.
But this campaign isn't really about me. It's about THAT ONE.
By now, it's quite obvious that the he is here, and fittingly, the blog media has run rampant with the news of his every move. The pictures, the comments, the videos... I haven't seen any video cameras at any of my campaign stops lately. But I'm not complaining. This is just typical media bias.He can sit up? Yippee. Can he shake hands? My opponent simply does not have the limb coordination experience that I have.
He smiles all the time at people. Congratulations. Is he going to just smile when Alexis takes one of his squeaky blocks next time she comes over? Sometimes you have to stand strong and stand up for what is right. These are serious times. And that means NOT smiling at people sometimes.
But really, my friends, all this focus on the media is just a distraction from the real crisis at hand.
So I am hereby suspending my campaign to focus on the issue that really matters to dogs everywhere across this great nation. They are being lost everywhere that a cute kid joins a family. The numbers are dwindling so fast that there is a danger that even the very knowledge of their existence could fade away and disappear if we don't act soon. It may already be too late for some households. And to this, I say to you, my fellow four-legged friends, Not on my watch.
If you look at my long record of legislative proposals, you'll see I'm no champion of big government. And I'm not interested in needless over-regulation. But something must be done or this crisis could spiral us downward into a deep, dark, desperate depression.
What I'm talking about is simple to understand:
Belly rubs, baby, belly rubs.
Thank you and may God Bless Dogs.
Arf!
ej
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